Complimentary Compliments

“Hey, nice socks,” I shout across the Mama Bear’s Parking lot. Did I just say that out loud, I ask myself? I sure did, all in the name of complimenting a complete stranger.

Inspired by the now famous “Compliment Guys” from Purdue, I set out to recreate their popular YouTube video. The video features the “Guys,” Brett Westcott and Cameron Brown, standing on campus and doling out “Free Compliments” as the sign they tote advertises. This endearing act earned the guys an appearance on the Good Morning America show and accolades from many admirers.

For my endeavor, I enlisted the help of my neighbor, Brad Ackerman. We stood in front of Mama Bear’s with our “Free Compliments” sign one brisk, Friday morning. We handed out “complimentary compliments” as Brad calls them, to nearly everyone who passed by.

The reactions we received ranged from the dumbfounded to the elated. Mostly, the compliments were well received. “The people we complimented were all very gracious and appreciative,” said Brad. One man even stopped and asked for more compliments!

The therapeutic effects of complimenting are evident in both the giver and receiver. I felt a bit of euphoria when I saw the smiles I received from those I complimented. I have even found myself making an effort to compliment those around me more everyday.

Brad wasn’t sure what to expect in regards to the reactions of the people. He thought people would wonder if we were serious in our attempts to praise them. The nice reactions assured him that the compliments were indeed appreciated. Brad said, “I think it is great that being kind to others has not gotten lost in this world of skepticism.”

Free Compliments Video